23 - The Mentor's Gift

Jul 16, 2026

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TO THE READER

There is a particular kind of help that arrives from a direction you were not watching. It comes from someone who owes you nothing, who belongs to a different camp, who has no stake in whether you succeed.

When that help comes, most people are suspicious of it. They start looking for the angle. What does he want? What is this going to cost me?
Sometimes the answer is nothing. Sometimes a man reaches out a hand because he loves the thing you are both trying to protect, and that is the entire reason.

Watch, in what follows, for the moment the gift is actually given. It is not the moment you will expect.

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23 - The Mentor's Gift

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