19 - Preparatory First, Reactionary Second

TO THE READER You can know a thing perfectly and still be unable to live it. This is one of the quiet tragedies of being human, and the martial arts are full of it. There are men who can explain peace with such clarity that you weep, and who cannot get through a single afternoon without conflict. And there are men who could never explain it at all, who simply are peaceful, the way water is wet....

TO THE READER There is a particular kind of help that arrives from a direction you were not watching. It comes from someone who owes you nothing, who belongs to a different camp, who has no stake in whether you succeed. When that help comes, most people are suspicious of it. They start looking for the angle. What does he want? What is this going to cost me?Sometimes the answer is nothing. Somet...

TO THE READER Most people, when they love something, protect it from the truth. They build a version of the story that flatters them, and then they defend it for the rest of their lives. There is another way to go about it, and it is much harder. You go looking for the people who can tell you that you are wrong. You invite the correction. You want it. To understand James Mitose honestly, this i...